Other Sex Toys to Consider
Here are a few other toys that aren’t as great as the picks above but are still worth a try.
Lelo Tor 3 for $169: If you love cock rings but would love them even more if they were app-enabled, then meet the Lelo Tor 3. While at first the Tor 3 looks very snug, this ring is extremely flexible, making it a perfect fit for all penises or strap-ons, if that’s how you prefer to use this device, as it’s designed to stimulate the clitoris when paired with a partner who has a vulva. Although you can score a whopping two hours of playtime with Tor 3, it’s paramount that you don’t exceed 30 minutes of restricted blood flow to the penis. And if at any time things start to hurt—not in a good way—remove the ring immediately. The Tor 3 doesn’t have the pinchable arms that the Dame Hug has, so it’s up to the users to be cognizant of time limits and potential side effects.
Dame Pom for $95: Once you give Dame Pom (8/10, WIRED Recommends) a try, there’s a very good chance it will become a favorite. The Pom is a sex toy that lets couples slow things down, giving them the time to explore each other’s bodies deeply and intimately. Although it’s normal that after years together, couples can get into patterns and habits when it comes to their sex life, with the Pom palm vibrator, you have the opportunity to reset things and expand what you thought you knew about each other’s sexual pleasure. Shaped to fit comfortably in any palm, the Pom is flexible, has 10 vibration modes, and also has a slightly peaked ridge for places where you want to be precise in stimulation. From nipples to vulva to penises, and every place in between, the Pom satisfies everything it touches. There’s no app or remote connectivity here, but with a few drops of water-based lube, the Pom will help your partner glide seamlessly from one erogenous zone to the next.
We-Vibe Sync 2 at $169: We-Vibe and the first incarnations of its Sync line really changed the game for couples’ sex toys. Not only was it a couple’s toy that could be worn during penetration, delivering vibrations to both partners, but its We-Connect app allowed people to stay connected no matter the physical difference between them. While other brands have come out with their own take on this concept, I would be remiss not to mention the brand that started it all.
Unbound Bender for $69: The Unbound Bender isn’t marketed as a couples’ sex toy, but as far as I’m concerned, it absolutely is. The Bender is called that because it bends this way and that, making both external and internal stimulation fun. Similar to the Dame Pom, this isn’t a toy that’s connected to an app, but it allows for couples to experiment with different types of stimulation, from head to toe, either as foreplay or as the main course. With 10 vibration modes and two hours of run time, you and your partner can light some candles, put on your favorite album, and explore each other’s bodies. In addition to being used on all your favorite external erogenous zones, the Bender is also safe for both vaginal and anal play, and its versatility really allows you to get creative in how you choose to use it.
B-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 for $95: Ilana Wexler said, “It’s 2014. Anal is on the menu” in Broad City over a decade ago, so it would be profoundly wrong not to include the remote-controlled b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2. It falls into the couples’ sex toy category thanks to its easy-to-use remote, and whether you’re new to anal stimulation or a seasoned fan, this is a plug that gives you everything you’d want. It’s not too big, and folks with prostates will thoroughly enjoy the internal stimulation, not to mention the rotating beads at the base of the plug to stimulate the anus, adding a sensation that can be enjoyed by anyone who has a butt.
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